If you’ve ever had kids, or been around children for any length of time, you know that when they are young and their immune systems are developing they basically become the world’s cutest little plague carriers. For several years, pretty much every bug going through the day care/school comes home to infect the whole family. Fortunately, as the kids grow and their immune systems strengthen, not every illness comes home. Then, after several years, the grandchildren come along and the process begins anew.
As of this writing, Kenn and I have three grandchildren: a twelve-year-old grandson, and his three-year-old brother and sister (fraternal twins). Up until our oldest son and his family (which includes all of the grandkids) moved to South Carolina, we kept our oldest grandson every other weekend; one of the times I have been the sickest was courtesy of him. At the time he was nine months old and fond of giving open-mouthed kisses as babies do when they’re first learning to kiss. It was adorable until he basically took out the whole family. I was sick as a dog for two weeks; everyone else shook it off after about a week. As for the grandson, he was fine; he was just a carrier. We still refer to it as the Babe-onic Plague.
Earlier this month, the twins were down visiting their other grandparents for a few days. Since we were headed to South Carolina for a weekend visit, we took the twins back with us. Lulu got a dose of Dramamine before we got on the road since she tends to get carsick. Everything was fine until just before we reached the Georgia/South Carolina border when Lulu started getting fussy. We took a break at the South Carolina Visitor’s Center so everyone could get out an move around. Lulu was not interested in anything. As I was carrying the pitiful little girl across the parking lot, I realized that she felt a little warm, but didn’t say anything. Kenn and I swapped off keeping an eye on the twins while the other went to the restroom. When I rejoined the group, Kenn said “Lulu feels a little warm to me.” I agreed, but we were almost to their house, so we loaded up and continued the journey. When we got to our son’s house, I told him that Lulu was fussy and felt a little warm, but he didn’t think she had a fever – until he took her temperature. Poor little girl had a temperature off 100.4o. Our daughter-in-law joined us at that point and our son greeted her with “Why does she get sick every time she visits your parents?” Of course, that’s one of those questions that has no answer. Poor little Lulu was sick all weekend; she was just miserable with a low-grade fever and a cough/congestion. (Linus, meanwhile, was fine.)

When Kenn and I headed home on Monday, I was sleepy – which tends to be one of the first signs that I’m getting sick. The kids contacted us to let us know that Lulu’s COVID test was negative and that she was starting to feel a little better. Once we got home, Kenn and I spent the next few days suffering from a mild fatigue and I had a day of “brain fog” where words just weren’t working. After we started feeling better, I told him that I felt like I’d had a really mild case of COVID. It turns out that we probably did. Apparently there are a couple of new COVID variants that a lot of tests don’t detect. I’m just thankful that Lulu was feeling better in just a few days and that Kenn and I were only slightly under the weather.
Are there any Babe-onic Plague type stories in your family?
Nary a one! Glad your misery was short lived.
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Lucky you!
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Probably the numbers: 1 child not in daycare; no grands.
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That is probably it. Both of our boys were in daycare starting at six weeks of age.
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My kid caught everything–from the kids on the block, the preschool, the elementary school, the sports teams, etc. Thankfully, none of them developed into secondary infections and I think he only had one round of antibiotics for strep throat. A lot of the noroviruses I’d already had, coming from a big family, but he definitely gave me multiple stomach bugs. Since my husband has a Cantonese cast iron stomach, he never threw up, but sometimes he’d just go to bed while I was left to cope with my nausea and my son’s. But when I got COVID and gave it to my husband? The kid gleefully texted me pictures of his negative COVID tests for 2 weeks. I test him every time he gets sick and NOTHING. That’s what a healthy immune system and every COVID booster will do for a youngster.
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Stomach bugs are the worst! Fortunately, we haven’t had one in ages. We used to wonder why Kenn got deathly ill once a year. Emergency surgery for a ruptured appendix cured him. Apparently, he had been suffering from chronic appendicitis for years.
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I just got sick from a friend who came over sick. I wish people would stay home when they are contagious! π€¦π»ββοΈπ€¦π»ββοΈπ€¦π»ββοΈ
The photo of Kenn and his grandbaby is so cute π₯° at that point youβd already been exposed to whatever germ it was, might as well snuggle! β€οΈ
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Exactly! Or at least let you know that they’re not feeling well so you have a choice.
We went to visit friends when our oldest was six weeks old. They didn’t tell us their kids were sick until we’d been there awhile. I was furious! Of course, our son got sick and developed his first ear infection.π€¦ββοΈπβΉοΈ
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You’re right: kids and germs go together like peas and carrots. Or chocolate and peanut butter if you’ve got a sweet tooth.
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One of the meanest things I can think of is when you’re having guests, one of them sneezes into the room, and says, “oh, damn my cold meds just wore off…” for some reason people think taking cold meds (or what we flat landers call “tylenol”), makes the cold disappear. er. It appears in other people.
And when you teach a child to cover their mouth when they sneeze, and then they wipe that hand on their sleeve. And hug you.
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Or they just wipe their nose on your shirt. *shudder*
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